One of the table setting holes that one can topple into is the development of themes. Birthdays, holidays and special interests of all kinds (literary references for book clubs, cowboy decor for barbeques, etc. etc.) can suggest tables that bring a sense of uniqueness and fun to a gathering. I usually stick to seasonal themes because I am trying to tap into something universal with my settings, and evoke, however subliminally, connections that are deeper than decoration. Also, the expense of chasing theme after theme can be daunting. However, sometimes a theme just reaches out and bites you, so what can you do? I was wondering what to do for Mike's 70th birthday dinner when I realized that a number of recent gifts to me had a common thematic thread. Mom gave me a filigree gold hurricane style candle holder for Christmas that reminded me of India, and for my birthday my sister Erin gave me little jewel and gold votive holders that had the same feeling. Then Erin reminded me of a shawl that Mom gave me a couple of years ago that also has an Indian design and the table came together.
The colors were different for me, but the warmth of the combinations made a pleasant bright spot for a winter celebration. Threads of turquoise in the shawl brought out the Fiesta plates and the wineglasses that don't get much use. Added to the new candle holders and some orange roses and alstroemeria, the effect was convivial and inviting. We had a great family party and dragged Mike into his seventies in style. Thanks to Mom and Erin for the elements that made this table happen.